I do. And you're perfectly in your rights to dislike her, and for however long it takes you to grieve. However, that kind of hatred born out of grief is worse for you than it is for her.

Eventually, for your own sake, you should find a way to make peace with it. And if you can't, you might just wake up not liking the person who looks back you from a mirror one day.

[Speaking from experience? You betcha.]